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Sep 30, 2008

Worry…..

Is there anyone who does not have any worries…???
At least ONE…???
:) … All of us know the answer…!!!
[If ‘NO’ I would want to meet you personally, m serious...!]
Let me just take you thru a few examples…

No 1. Tribulations of a bachelor (Age: 20 to 25):
He/she thinks they are the most cursed creatures on the planet earth. No one to confide to, feels everyone around is happy but them. Feels they could be the happiest person if they had the “The Person” in their lives. They work hard, really hard, but at the end of the day they are not happy, they ask themselves “Y am I doing this, Y am I working this hard, for whom I am working this hard” they are not satisfied. They all go to bed worried every single day with the hope of finding that “Somebody” tomorrow.

No.2. Worries of the exciting clan: “The newly married ones” (Age: 25 to 35):
They start out all good initially and gradually enter in to the world everyone is in… (lol… The gloomy Gus I am) worries start with the basic essentiality…. “Freedom”… obviously they are been refrained to do wot they used to do or rather, still like to do… Alas… they can’t go by only their wishes or fondness… U knw y, cos there’s someone waiting for them back home… and slowly they start doing things which they want to do and end up in that puddle of remorse or the slight agony… this basically leads to lack of passion in the relationship, No passion – No commitment – No Care – No affection – No love – Anger – Fights – anxiety- start worrying [read each word twice] … Den Comes…. Oh man, I should have been a bachelor (Go to No.1..:))

No.3 The committed ones but not married (Age 20 to 26 or even 30 in a few cases):
Okay these people think they are on top of the world and there are no boundaries in their luv and no one can intrude in to their relationship, blab blab and yeah, it keeps going on for some time and then comes the good part. It usually starts with this thing called ‘possessiveness’ … One does not get enough freedom to do what they want and keeps blaming the other one for it. They spend their time with each other but are still not happy and keep mourning about what they would have done otherwise. Then the real thing comes up, to satisfy ones “expectations” which gets harder to keep up going further. This whole thing comes as a combo, well there are loads one can add to it and in fact this can be taken up as one separate blog.

No.4. The Biggies:
They might or might not have hoarded enough wealth but that’s not what is bothering them. They need love, care and affection from their children. While these people are big time busy focusing their career, they are in a pool of trouble themselves (either No.1 or No.2 or No.3) No comments, further.

No.5. The married ones who have sacrificed their wishes and got on to life, just that they don’t many options on this (Age: 35 to 40):
Life is really tough for this group, seriously… They have their to concentrate on their future, their career and they basically start sacrificing things for others, their spouse, in laws, kids, parents, boss, assets, health, oooo there are tons and tons of it..
These are just a few, well there are many areas you can touch upon…..

But hold on… Is there any problem in this world that does not have a solution…??

If so Science would never have existed and so would Math…. Hmmm so wot do we do… keep moving on in life with all the pains and worries, or take up a problem and handle it right away, or may be just forget it and move on…. Take a call guys and it’s up to you… Life is full of surprises you never know what is waiting for you round the corner… Some time you find something good and sometimes things that you never wanted to happen. Life is a blend of bliss and grief if any one of it is a little more, life would get mundane and there will be no zing…. So let’s accept life as it comes and move on…!!!