Life - Love - Its birth - Its end…

God created love for good, it has a meaning and He also created bereavement and death, again for good.

Every one of us live life or rather move on in life for someone whom we luv (unlike very few who live only for themselves) Husbands for their wives, mothers for their children, children for their parents, a few for the luv they have on the Almighty. It’s like a driving force and life moves on because of this very strong this force.

But what happens when the adverse thing happens, what happens when u lose your loved ones. If u look back, every one of us would have lost someone whom we loved in our lives, few would have lost their spouses, a few their boyfriend or girlfriend, their parents.... when I say ‘lost’ it not only means death, it also includes separation, divorces, break ups, etc,. Every one of us knows it’s hard, getting over a relationship with someone whom who loved is the most awful thing…
But what next – Life has to move on –there is no dead end.

Paulo Coelo in one of his books has very beautifully explained the concept of love. He wouldn’t have mentioned loved one but would have referred them as 'Soul mates'.

He says, God created Adam first. His soul split and then came Eve. When a soul comes to an end it usually splits up in to two, and the two further in to four and that’s how the entire universe is created and dat’s y we find so many souls in this universe. When we meet our soul mate we would feel a sense of knowingness, there’s something between you two and it will not be long before you sense it, cos it you – your own self in another body. The joy of being with your soul mate is simply inexplicable. But you have to find your rite soul mate and that itself is a science and you won’t believe, there are books on it. When I say soul mate it not necessarily has to be a person from the opposite sex, it can even be a person from the same sex …

There’s another situation I want to take up, it’s the ‘more than one situation’. Few say they are fond of another person when they already would have found one. This is no bizarre a thing. They are your soul mate again, just another one of your soul mate… as I said earlier a soul splits in to two and this person is just another one of your soul mate, and then.... a completely different confusion starts (m sure you know wot m talking about)… well this is life and life has to move on…. You’ll have to deal with it any way…

Okay, where were we… Love and its end… Nothing is permanent in life…each and every single thing has its end, but upon death is life…. creation and destruction, birth and death are mutual... this whole thing comes as a package, so accept the package and live life as it comes… As it is, we don’t have any another choice… :)